How do I tell if I need to let go or not?

2021.12.01 00:58 Here_4_the_vbz How do I tell if I need to let go or not?

I (22f) have been dating my bf (23m) for almost two years now. We’ve been off and on throughout this time. I have anxiety pretty severely and feel the need to control everything in my life. This adds a lot of stress onto him and I know it does. When I get like this he retaliates and it normally hurts me pretty badly.
He’s gotten new friends over the past 6ish months (the beginning of this time we were broken up) we all became friends during the summer after him and I had a big break up that lasted a while. In this time we had a fling going on but he also slept with two other girls.
His friends are really funny and all that but how they treat they’re “girlfriends” is not how I would ever want to be treated.
We started trying to work things out when school started back up but then I found out he had lied to me about having sex with those other two girls. We worked it out.
This last time we broke up (which I broke up with him) was after he retaliated again and it hurt me really bad. I told him I needed space.
I love him so much and honestly can picture myself being with him for the rest of my life but our relationship is so problematic.
When should I finally stop fighting for it and move on? He’s my best friend and I don’t want to do anything without him but sometimes it’s physically draining to be with him.
How would I work to fix this after everything?
TL;DR honestly I’m new to Reddit and don’t know what this means😭
Any advice?
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I don't know if this was talked about before here.
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2021.12.01 00:58 ObjectiveDev Struggling to find a 1.5c diamond < $10k. Am I right to let my GF know that this is accurate?

Discussing before looking, without knowing anything we knew 3-5k was “average”. 2-3k was what friends our age had spent. And since I have a relatively good job for my age, we thought 6-8k for something really nice. The “max do not got over ever per GF” was 10k.
So we went browsing and my GF likes the pear shaped single halo, with small diamonds.
At Shane Co. the diamond to go with the above was 10k VS2 1.5 carat colorless.
The ring was 2k
At first we thought “yikes. More than we expected” but I assumed “eh these are Shane Co prices which are way too high. I can find this much cheaper locally or online”. Because of this we both were thinking “at least 1.5carat or larger”
Turns out… I can’t?
A local place was astonished at that the 10k price saying it was very low.
Looking online, 1.5carat jumps up in prices. Nearly everything is 9k+.
But then a friend got a 1.4 carat “salt and pepper” diamond and my internal thought was

holy fuck how did they afford that. That’s at least 10k. Damn without my GF understanding the prices she may think that’s normal but I can’t find one that big for < 10k
what matters to my GF
Size > clarity, while staying relatively colorless to the eye. At least 1carat but she’s thinking 1.5carat without knowing the prices.
I’m going to go back to her and say “hey… we agreed to no more than 10k but that’s not possible with a big ring”
HOWEVER, I wanna double check here and get other options.
1) is it correct to expect 10k for a 1.5+ carat colorless S2 (or above) pear?
2) if she wants a diamond what are the cheaper options that allow us to get a bigger ring?
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