2021.12.01 00:58 Here_4_the_vbz How do I tell if I need to let go or not?
I (22f) have been dating my bf (23m) for almost two years now. We’ve been off and on throughout this time. I have anxiety pretty severely and feel the need to control everything in my life. This adds a lot of stress onto him and I know it does. When I get like this he retaliates and it normally hurts me pretty badly.
He’s gotten new friends over the past 6ish months (the beginning of this time we were broken up) we all became friends during the summer after him and I had a big break up that lasted a while. In this time we had a fling going on but he also slept with two other girls.
His friends are really funny and all that but how they treat they’re “girlfriends” is not how I would ever want to be treated.
We started trying to work things out when school started back up but then I found out he had lied to me about having sex with those other two girls. We worked it out.
This last time we broke up (which I broke up with him) was after he retaliated again and it hurt me really bad. I told him I needed space.
I love him so much and honestly can picture myself being with him for the rest of my life but our relationship is so problematic.
When should I finally stop fighting for it and move on? He’s my best friend and I don’t want to do anything without him but sometimes it’s physically draining to be with him.
How would I work to fix this after everything?
TL;DR honestly I’m new to Reddit and don’t know what this means😭
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